Inkuru ya Jean Claude NKUBITO
Reka twongere twiganirire, twiyibutse ibyahise ariko bitibagiranye. Nitunabishaka ibyiza muri byo tuzabigarure ! Bitwaye iki se wa mugani w’ab’ubu ?
Ubushize duherukana tuvuga uko umuryango witeguraga umwana, tuvuga uko umwana yakirwaga mu muryango we ndetse n’abaturanyi (kanda hano usome iwacu mu cyaro y’ubushize) Uyu munsi turakomeza, turavuga Ubunnyano ari bwo mu Kinyaga bita nyabwerera.
Ndongera ngume iwacu i Nyakibingo ku Mugera wa Gafunzo ya kera aho mvuka nakuriye. Kuko ari ho nzi neza, ningera ku byo namenye ahandi nkuze, mu Bugoyi, mu Bumbogo i Masoro, i Kabgayi n’i Kigali Kapitali na byo nzabibabwira uko nabibonye.
Nongere nibutse usoma ibi ko ari ibyo nabonye, uwabonye ibirenzeho ntazivutse kunyunganira.
Umwana yavutse rero, nyina bamucaniye imyase ngo yote, bamwokereza inyamunyo,...ako kari akaririmbo baririmbiraga umukobwa washyingiwe bashimira nyina wamubyaye! Bakitaga Ngelina Ngelina, ayi Ngelina we.. . (Angeline).
Tuzakagarukaho umwana akuze. Ubu turacyavuga ko ari mu cyumweru cya mbere avutse, nyina ari ku kiriri. Ikiriri cy’umubyeyi rero mu Rwanda rw’iwacu ku Mugera kikaba ubusanzwe kimara icyumweru. Ariko gihagarikwa n’uko urureri rw’umwana ruvuyeho iwacu tukabyita gukunguura / gukuunguura/. Kugira ngo ruveho na byo ba babyaza ba gihanga (cyangwa wa mubyaza iyo yabaga ari umwe) bazinduka buri munsi baza kureba umubyeyi. Bamara kunywa itabi, ntibarinywera iruhande rw’umwana, bagacira uducandwe ku rureri. Urureri rukagenda rurekura buhoro buhoro, umukondo twe twita umucondo ugasigara wafumye, ubusanzwe ntibirenga iminsi itandatu. Ikiriri gitindwa na muramukazi w’umubyeyi cyangwa murumuna we ariko nyirabukwe, kera bakibaho, akaba hafi aho. Akajya aza gukanda umubyeyi, akamukandisha amazi n’imiti y’imivugutano, ibi narabyumvise sinabihagazeho murabyumva namwe sinahingutse aho buhagira banakanda umubyeyi! Iyo rero umwana yakunguraga basibaga umunsi umwe bakamusohora, byaba amahire agakungura ku wa kane bakazamusohora ku wa gatandatu. Uwo munsi wabaga ari umunsi w’ibirori kuko ni bwo umubyeyi yajyaga hanze ku mugaragaro bwa mbere.
Babaga bafite urwagwa, iwacu ntihaba ibigage. Bagateka ibishyimbo byeze vuba bitari ibigugu, bakabigerekaho igitoki cy’ikakama iwacu bacyitaga igitoki cya mazizi. Bakabicanira kugeza ubwo igitoki gihindutse umutuku, ariko ntibashyiragamo umunyu. Nyiri urugo, umugabo wabyaye akajya gutumira abana n’ababyeyi bose bo ku musozi, nta rugo yasimbukaga, haba kwa mwarimu, haba kwa Responsable wa cellule, haba ku mukuru w’inama, icyo gihe abapentekosti bari bataraza ku musozi, na byo nzabigarukaho igihe nikigera.
Buri mwana wese yabaga agomba kuhaba, yewe n’ubwo umubyeyi ataboneka, ariko abana bakahaboneka bose. Bakaza kwakira mugenzi wabo. Nongere mbigarukeho, yaba uwambaye igipira cya nyina, yaba uwambaye inkweto (ibirato), yaba umusirimu yaba umukene, ubwoko bwo nta n’ubwatekerezwaga rwose, bose yewe n’umushyitsi babaga batumiwe. Kutahaboneka, gukumira umwana wawe ntaze byari gufatwaga nk’icyaha gishobora guteranya imiryango n’abaturanyi. Mu gihe nakuzemo nta wasibaga, kandi navuye iwacu ku musozi ku buryo buhoraho muri 1984 mfite imyaka 14. Abana babicazaga ku birago hanze. Abagabo bakicara ku ntebe, abagore ku birago.
Igihe cyagera umubyeyi akaza gusohoka, yambaye neza, bamutwaje uruhinja, akicara ku kirago iruhande rw’abamubyaje na nyirabukwe n’abandi bagenzi be bo ku musozi. Nta mukobwa w’inkumi wabaga yicaye aho babaga bahugiye mu mirimo hirya iyo. Hari abasore batarashaka bahageraga ariko si benshi. Habaga hari abasaza n’abagabo bafite ingo bose uko bakabaye batuye ku musozi. Bose bamaze kwicara, abakuru bakabaha inzoga mu ducuma bakica inyota. Abana ku birago bakoze uruziga, babahaga amazi bagakaraba, bakabatereka inkooko ( intaara) hagati iriho bya bishyimbo na bya bitoki bitagira umunyu. Ibyo kandi ni ryo funguro ryatangwaga mu ngo zose hatitawe ku butunzi buhari. Habaga rero ababyeyi batera abana akanyabugabo ngo babirye babimare, maze babimaraho bakavuga ngo TURAGAYE. Bakabongera. Mu by’ukuri ibyo bishyimbo n’ibitoki byaryoshywaga no gusangirwa gusa naho ubundi nta cyanga byabaga bifite bitarimo akunyu! Ariko ni ho abana bose babaga bahuriye, bakina,… gusangira ubwabyo bikabaryohera ntibite ku cyanga cy’iryo funguro. Kandi bose babaga bahari nta kwirata ngo mwe iwanyu muteka neza, iryo funguro nta waryinempfaguzaga!
Iyo abana barangizaga ibyo babongeye, batondaga umurongo imbere y’umugabo wabyaye wabaga yicaye iruhande rw’umugore we. Yabaga afite igicuma cy’inzoga, ba bana umwe umwe agasoma umusa, w’urwagwa, habaga ubwo umusomya amubwiye ati ongera abona yakuruye gake ( abana bo mu Kinyaga barutangiraga kare), ubundi akavuga izina yise umwana.
Hakaboneka umuntu uyafata mu mutwe, muri za 1978 ho hari hari n’abazi kwandika bakayandika. Abana barangiza kwita amazina, ba babyeyi bakazana urugori rukosheje mu gikenyeri, bakarutegesha wa mubyeyi. Ibyo iyo byarangiraga, ba babyeyi bamubyaje na nyirabukwe bajyaga gusasura, bagatindura cya kiriri, cyabaga kigizwe n’isaso y’ibirere by’ amashara (amajangara mu Kinyaga) akaba amakoma yumye. Yabaga arambitse ku myase iri ku musego no ku mpande, harengejeho imisambi n’ibirago. Iyo myase abo babyeyi bamubyaje na nyirabukwe barayigabanaga. Bakanabongereraho n’indi nk’ibiri ku za nkwi bashirije umubyeyi zanitse ingerekerane mu rugo. Na zo kandi bakazisambura zikabikwa mu nzu zikava hanze. Bagashaka umusore w’ingaramakirambi aho bakamukorera ya myase bageneye umubyaza. Akayijyana mu rugo rw’uwo mubyaza wa mubyeyi akaguma aho mu mihango yabaga igikomeza.
Umugabo nyiri urugo yarahagurukaga. Akereka ba babyeyi aho bari bushyire ya saso y’amashara ivuye ku kiriri. Yabahitiragamo insina ebyiri cyangwa eshatu zera ibitoki by’inzoga, zikitwa izabo. Bagashyiraho ya saso. Iyo izo ntsina zanaga zikera igitoki, inzoga ya mbere yenzwe irimo bya bitoki bakuragaho igicuma bakagiha wa mubyaza.
Ubwo rero batoranyaga umwana ufite ababyeyi bombi bakamuhekesha rwa ruhinja. Umukobwa agaheka umukobwa umuhungu agaheka umuhungu. Ba babyeyi bose bakajya inyuma y’umwana uhetse undi, bakagenda bakagera ku irembo bakagaruka, ubwo umwana akaba arakiriwe, yeretswe iwabo aho ari ho, ko nazajya agenda azajya agaruka aho, ko ari mu bandi bazamuheka bakamusimbiza agakurira mu bandi, ndetse n’umubyeyi akaba yakongera akajya ku irembo, akaba yasubira mu mirimo ye isanzwe abashije kubona akabaraga.
Izina ry’umwana ryararaga ritamenyekanye. Bashoboraga kurikura mu yo abana batanze, cyangwa se bakamwita irindi. Nyuma y’iminsi ibiri ryabaga rizwi, ryaba rigoranye kurivuga bakazajya bamwita irihimbano rikazamukuza, iryo yiswe rigahera mu ndangamuntu no ku ifishi y’ishuri.
Sinshidikanya ko hari byinshi nibagiwe, abo tuva hamwe bazagende banyongerera, ubutaha tuzarebera hamwe inzoga zo guhemba. Nibinashoboka turebe uko umwana yakuriraga muri urwo rusobe rw’abantu atazi uwo bafitanye isano n’uwo batayifitanye. Kuko bose bitwaga ababyeyi be yabishaka atabishaka. Nako ibyo kutabishaka ntibyabagaho kuko warakosaga uwo muhuye akuruta akaguhana wanagera iwanyu ukabaganyira bakongeraho izindi !
Kera habayeho….
Jean Claude NKUBITO 29 Ugushyingo 2021
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